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doggy matters ditch the behaviour
not the dog! Andrea
Williams - Canine Behaviour Counsellor Associate
Member of Canine Behaviour Centre |
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A Dog’s Eye View |
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Benji and Spud – dogs need friends too!
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Note: Just to make things less
complex, and because I have a male dog, I have referred to the dog as
“he”. If you have a female dog please
forgive me! SEEING THINGS FROM THE DOG'S PERSPECTIVE Did you ever consider what it
must be like for a dog who is brought to your home
for the first time from from a kennel or rescue centre? Have you ever thought
how strange our environment must seem? Did you ever wonder how
difficult it must be for dogs to abide by our rules when they don't have the
slightest clue what the rules are? Oh
yes, and remember, however well behaved a dog may be, he can't take his shoes
off and doesn't have access to our toilet! Much has been written about the “dominant dog” and
many owners have been convinced that they have to “show the dog who’s boss”,
behave like the “pack leader” and in some cases even use physical force in
order to keep their dog “under control”.
A great deal has also been written about Dominance Reduction Programs
(DRPs for short) and although these regimes may “appear” to work it has been
shown that they can have a devastating effect on the dog emotionally and in
many cases behavioural problems are made worse in the long term. Barry
Eaton’s book
Dominance, Fact or Fiction seriously questions this
method of dealing with behavioural problems, and he’s not alone! How much more satisfying to build a relationship
based on mutual respect and love. Much
as I agree that guidance and boundaries are necessary in order to help our
dogs feel confident, secure and relaxed, I am no longer convinced that we
have to behave like “top dog” in order to achieve this. Dominance has been repeatedly diagnosed as
the reason for aggressive behaviour but dogs very often behave “aggressively”
because they are frightened (in some cases terrified), confused and
emotionally frustrated at being unable to act out their normal behaviours,. |
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Do dogs understand or speak our
language? Of course not! So when we speak to them initially it may
as well be Japanese or Russian and they won't have a clue what we're saying, they
won't know what we want from them or what's going to happen to them from one
minute to the next. If we add to the
confusion by shouting at them, just imagine how this must make them
feel. It's not too difficult to see
where the saying "a dog's life" comes from. That's not to say that we can't teach a dog
to understand what we would like from them but we must realise that to expect
a dog to respond to us when we simply speak to them or worse still shout at
them is somewhat unrealistic! It is possible to teach your
dog what certain words mean but sentences will initially go over your dog's
head. Eventually he may become
familiar with longer phrases or sentences if he has heard them many times
and, more importantly, has learned to associate them with certain outcomes. For the majority of the time however he is
far more likely to be picking up on other non-verbal cues. These cues may be obvious or subtle but
your dog can be an expert when it comes to picking up on them. He will also pick up a great deal from your
body language and tone of voice. For example picking up a lead
and putting your coat on will most likely signal to your dog that you are
about to take him out for a walk and excitement is likely to ensue. The fact that you yelled
"walkies" (or something similar) is only a small part of the whole
picture. On the other hand if you put
on your coat and pick up your car keys and briefcase, he may look a bit
despondent as he will guess that you are about to leave him alone. In this case you may be mistaken in
thinking that he understands what "see you later" means! Many people will exclaim "my dog
understands everything I say" but as you will see, there is far more
going on than just words. Eventually it is likely that a
dog will form associations between certain words and certain actions or
experiences. It is not difficult for a
dog to learn words like sit, lie, come, stay and to respond to these command
but these are learned words.
Eventually these learned words may still be recognised when they form
part of a sentence. This may lead people to think that the dog has understood
the whole sentence but this is unlikely to be the case. Having said all of the above
there are a number of expert animal communicators who claim to be able to
communicate with animals in a number of other ways. Amelia
Kinkade
(author of Straight from the
Horse’s Mouth) and Silvia Kent, founder of the A1Harmony program both believe that love and understanding
are the key to successful communication with our animal companions. They believe that animals pick up on the
energy we give off as well as our thoughts processes and that with the use of
visualisation techniques and other practical exercises,
we can learn the art of a more subtle form of communication. This is an area that interests me deeply as
these ideas and theories blend in well the other therapies I practise Bach Flower Remedies and Reiki. Touch is another way to utilise
non-verbal communication. So much can
be “said” with a soft touch and gentle stroking movements. Linda
Tellington Jones, the founder of Tellington Touch (T-Touch) has written many books on the
subject and Getting in Touch
with your Dog is just one of many. We need
to be mindful however that fearful, shy or traumatised animals may be
extremely fearful of any kind of physical interaction and so we need to use
our discretion and, if in doubt, seek professional advice. Turid
Rugaas’ book
Calming Signals will help you to understand
how dogs pacify each other to ward off any form of confrontation. It also contains some body language
techniques you can utilise to let your dog know that you are non-threatening
and have his best interests at heart. Click here
for direct links to these books. We can learn a lot about how a
dog is feeling from his body language.
The dog's stance, ear and tail positions and the way the eyes and
mouth appear give us vital clues. We
can see if a dog is fearful or experiencing stress. We can tell whether a dog is feeling
playful and happy or becoming aggressive.
Some of these signals are obvious to most of us but others are much
more subtle and may only be noticed by those with experience of dog behaviour
and body language. Picture is a poster from art.com click it to visit
the site When we look at things from a
doggy perspective, it's not difficult to see why we have so many problem
behaviours. In fact it's quite amazing
that so many dogs behave as well as they do. Prevention is always better
than cure so if you start out on the right track with a young pup (or even an
older dog) you're less likely to have problems. For many people however it's a case of
finding out the hard way. It happened
to me with my first dog, Toby. I was a
complete novice when it came to dogs!
You can read my story here. |
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Behaviour is neither
good or bad, it's simply behaviour.
We as the owners decide what is acceptable or non-acceptable (good or
bad). Some owners are happy for their
dog to lie on furniture or beds, others would be mortified! Other owners may like their dogs to show
aggression towards strangers or intruders, whilst others may find this
worrying or disturbing. Many
behaviours that are labelled "naughtiness" or
"nastiness" are simply dogs being dogs. The problem for us is usually the fact that
they are behaving like wild animals in our lovely pristine home. At times like these, it pays to remember … …WE CHOSE TO PUT THEM THERE!! In the absence of help and
guidance from us as compassionate humans, they will behave in the only way
they know how. Whilst it is essential
to provide outlets for their natural behaviours to avoid a build up of
frustration and stress, we can gently encourage and help them to behave in
ways that are more pleasing to us. If
we make learning an enjoyable process for our dogs and reward their behaviour
whenever they make progress, they are likely to repeat the behaviours
learned. At the same time it is best
to pay little or no attention to behaviour that we don’t want. We can often find a way to channel unwanted
behaviour into a less destructive activity by engaging in some form of play
with our dog which can be mutually satisfying and can also help to build a
bond. Distraction is a good way to
ward off any major problems. Most importantly
we need to also ensure that their canine needs are met as much as possible. Apart from the obvious needs like food,
water, shelter, exercise and playtime, dogs like humans and any other living
creature have emotional needs. If
these needs are neglected, and a dog becomes stressed and unhappy his ability
to learn is impaired and things are more likely to degenerate than to
improve. DOGS' NEEDS
Dogs needs are simple:
POSITIVE
REINFORCEMENT/REWARD-BASED LEARNING
Dogs, like humans, do what
works and if there's no payoff they probably won't repeat the behaviour. Would you go to work if you didn't get
paid? I doubt it! Dogs are learning all of the time
not just when we are trying to teach or train them. We can inadvertently teach a dog to do
something we do not want. Here are
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BEHAVIOUR
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REWARD
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RESULTANT LEARNING
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Dog scratches at back door - he
wants to come in or go out |
Door is opened |
Scratch door, great
result! |
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Dog pulls on lead |
Owner walks faster to keep up
and the walk continues |
Pulling gets me there
faster. |
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Dog jumps up at visitors |
Visitors make a fuss of dog while
he is jumping up |
Jumping up is great! |
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SUGGESTIONS TO ACHIEVE DESIRED
BEHAVIOUR:
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Dog scratches at back door - he
wants to come in or go out |
Wait until dog stops scratching
open door immediately he stops |
Scratching didn’t work. |
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Dog pulls on lead |
Stop walking immediately the
dog pulls, call your dog back to you enthusiastically. Praise/treat him and resume walking when
dog is at your side. Keep your dog’s
focus on you in anyway you can, a ball, a toy or a treat can work well. |
Dog learns that coming back to
you results in something good happening and the walk continues once he is at
your side. |
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Dog jumps up at visitors |
Ask all visitors to come in quietly
and not make too much fuss until dog is quiet or sitting down. |
Dog learns that sitting or staying calm gets
attention. |
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Benji – isn’t he handsome? |
REMEMBER TO ALWAYS:
1 Work in a spirit of co-operation so
that your dog will enjoy the experience and will want to please you. 2 Encourage your dog with plenty of praise
and good things. Find out what your
dog likes most and use it. It can be a
game with a favourite toy, a scratch on the rump or a treat. Learn about dog body language so you will
recognise any signs of stress. Not all
dogs enjoy kisses and cuddles! 3 Reward your dog whenever he makes an
effort or does well eg with enthusiastic praise, tasty treats, games, toys
etc. Set him up for success – make it
easy for him in the beginning by helping him a little. |
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These examples may seem rather
simplistic and many problems are far more complex than these but this may
give you a general idea of how dogs learn.
Helping dogs learn something new often requires patience, perseverance
and consistency. However, once you
have managed to gently establish some ground rules and provided you have made
learning a rewarding and fun experience, you may find yourself being
pleasantly surprised at how well your dog responds. The bond you build in this way will bring
you years of pleasure and enjoyment in the future, not to mention a happy,
sociable, well-adjusted pet who you will feel happy to include in many
aspects of your life. Punishment is inadvisable and
does little to build a good relationship between you and your dog. Methods of punishment include smacking,
rough handling, shouting and even the denial of something that the dog likes
or enjoys eg taking away food or a special toy. In many cases punishment actually increases
problem behaviour and can cause many dogs to become highly stressed,
particulary those who are already confused, timid or fearful. This in turn can result in
defensive/aggressive behaviour and can therefore be counterproductive. Punishment may appear to "work"
and get the results you want in the short term but the long-term effect on
your dog can be detrimental. By
suppressing unwanted behaviour with punishment you could be creating a whole
host of future behavioural problems. Stressed animals are more
likely to exhibit behaviour patterns that we find disturbing, inconvenient
and costly. For example, animals
suffering from separation anxiety may defecate, urinate, bark, howl or be
extremely destructive when left alone.
They don't behave in this way through naughtiness or to get back at us
for leaving them alone. They are most
likely suffering from extreme levels of anxiety, frustration and boredom. After all how would a human being feel
locked up in a room for hours on end, day in day out with nothing to do -
Crazy? Manic? Depressed?
Suicidal? Sometimes this
anxiety is so great that animals resort to self mutilation with horrific
consequences. It would be totally
inappropriate to punish an animal suffering from this degree of stress. …. to be continued DOGS AND CHILDREN … coming soon Please Note: All animal treatment will require your
Veterinary Surgeon’s approval. |
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